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Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Panikian Trail to Tarak

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Again, another milestone has been added to my 2009.
My first mountain climb ever... and a major one at that.. traversing Mariveles Mountain Range in Bataan.


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My initial purpose in going was to add photos to my already overflowing collection. I was really, really, really excited just because of that.


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It was a blessed trip. My sister, Zarah, invited me to go with a budget of Php1500. I told her I couldn't. Budget-wise, it was too expensive for me. Considering the fact also that I have to buy my own supplies for the trip. I haggled the price over and she said she'll take care of the rest. So I really have no idea how much we all spent per person. Zarah was officially the team purser. (And she does a great job at that.)


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We started agreed to leave at 4am from Alabang. But as you Pinoys, 4am became 5am. We met our team tour guide Sky Biscocho in Pasay at around 7am. Sky was stuck in traffic coming from Batangas. We left Manila at 8am, reached Bataan at around 11am. We had lunch at the jump off site with "Manong", Sky's adoptive father in that area.

Manong collects Php30 from every mountaineer who wishes to conquer the land form. Sky says Manong does a better job than the Barangay, who collects Php 20 but absolutely keeps the money for themselves. Manong collects for the maintenance of the area. He keeps a ledger that he presents to the Municipal office for whatever reason. Bataan is a growing province and it's tourism is one of it's main attractions. Maybe the city government is keeping tabs on their hotspots. Money in, yet again.


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Then we started the real trek. Sky was actually gauging our pace. If we were able to reach The Gate before 2pm, we would take the Traverse route to Tarak. If not, It would be the Papaya River Trail for us. Surprisingly enough, we reached The Gate before 2pm and headed for the Panikian Trail. Most seasoned mountaineers would love to take this particular path to Tarak. One reason they don't is because they think Sky (our tour guide and discoverer of the Panikian Trail) is not sharing the trail. It is true. That path is super challenging. Once you hit the river, it's river trekking for mountaineers and there is not turning back. Skip over boulders, small and big, and you'll eventually find yourself hugging to the nearest rock you could find. (I found myself crying over pain and exhaustion when I could barely haul myself up a huge one). And that was the last of my stunts for the day.

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We then held camp near the river. It was nearly 6pm and too dark for my eyes if we continued to go upstream. Sky found us a cozy area good for 3 tents. He had dinner of Zarah's marinated pork and some pork and bean from Charlie. Soju was then served after dinner. I was so tired by that time, I passed the Soju offer and headed straight to sleep. I really wish Sky would name that campsite Soju.


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We woke up at 430 am to freshen up and have some breakfast. Trekking time started again before 7am. We reached the Sladge (I don't know if I'm spelling it right)around 10am. We were a bunch of newbies to major climbs. Laugh if you want but for me, it was already an accomplishment to reach that part of the mountain. We had a 15 minute break, pictorial and headed again to the Peak! And when I say that we are going up at almost 30 degrees from vertical. That is steep!


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we conquered the boulder part of the climb hanging on to thick roots and small trees and then WE LOST THE TRAIL!. Sky couldn't find the easier trail so we had to go HARD CORE! More steeper grounds and loose soil. We are thankful it wasn't as muddy or else, we would have taken the Papaya Trail from the start.

Almost there. time to go pass the Japanese garden. Even if we wanted to take picture from every point of the trail, it would be really difficult. You need both hand to climb up the summit. We climbed almost vertical now and was over grey boulders. First grasslands appear in a distance. a few more minutes and we were at the Joshua tree at the peak.


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I t felt great to actually accomplish what you came for. The view compensated for the physical pain we all felt that time. We then had lunch. No more rice. We had oatmeal and corned beef and then we began to trek down to Tarak Ridge. It was 3pm when we got there. What a view! Sky says that most mountaineers are satisfied to camp out at the trek and not really reach the peak. The trail is harder than usual is they want to go up the peak.

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Going down to the Papaya River was much more difficult than we realized. It took us 2 hours to reach it. We lost the trail once and Sky was a few minutes ahead of us. Fear was subtly creeping in but since the sun was still out, we pursued Papaya and eventually reaching it after 30 minutes after Sky. That experience is freaky!


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I had no psyche left when we reached the river. A few minutes of rest and some chocolates did not improve anything. Remember, we were trekking since 7am and the beauty of Papaya I didn't really enjoy. I hated the view I saw. Snippets of trash from previous campers. Vandalizing trees with names they think is cool. (KUNG IKAW YUNG NAG VANDAL DUN, MATANONG KO LANG: Kung ikaw ang puno, gusto mo bang maging papel na ginawang scratch? Cheap niyo naman!) Sorry, guys. Nakakaasar lang talaga.


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We headed uphill again, we are on our way out. It was almost 6pm and the sun is sinking fast. We had no choice but to do a night trek. Charlie lent me one of his flashlights. I was hyperventilating and almost at the point of crying and didn't want to move one more muscle from my body. If it wasn't scary enough to walk on foot in the middle of a jungle like place in the night, you had to cross a landslided area around 14 feet deep. Not much during the day but at NIGHT! Grrr...


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So there, we were eventually at the resort by 10pm. Hungry and tired, we all did our bath there and decided to eat at Burger Machine. Dinner at Midnight. Ironic eh? We then headed home for Manila catching the 2am bus of Bataan Liner.


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Trip was tiring but super awesome. Sky says that they will be considering opening the Panikian to people, BUT by invitation only and would be charging a sizeable fee. This is the best mountaineering trip, ever!

Saturday, September 26, 2009

Nihongo no Gakusei

Finals is just 2 days away... Tuesday and I want to pass the curriculum.

I have learned so much but I must admit, it needs more time for retention.

I am simultaneously doing my Kanji writings. complicated characters they truly are...

These entries may seem so random, babbling in a way. A lot has happened... doko e hajimemasu ka?

I am still a little bit confused about the particles... there are so many!!! ka, ga, ni, te, de, to... the list goes on... I really have to read back on my manual then...

The batch is also going to Tanabe-san's resutoran. I won't go... It is so expensive!!! I'd rather save my money for the review this Saturday!

If the storm did not break yesterday, I might have missed one of the review classes... God truly has a purpose in allowing all these thing to happen....

Poor population in the northern part of Metro Manila... I hope they recover soon.

Just finished JDrama "Engine"... all I can say is it was worth the watch!

How Do I Measure?

This has not been the best month for QA for me. I wasn't even able to get a 95% QA score. I am so frustrated. I even had to cry in the office just because of the effin' score of 55 the internal analyst gave me. I am starting to hate call centers and its industry. The pay may be high.. but oh.. the stress and the pressure of living that career...

That day when I got the 55, I realized something. I didn't like to be measured. It made me feel like a tiny spec in their gigantic measuring stick. I feel like I am a failure. And agree with me or not, this is what most people fear. FAILING!

And if this continues, I don't care about the pay! Nobody will ever be good enough to pass this friggin' QA list! I might as well leave and not look back...

Life is so unfair! I am full of heartaches. I am miserable in this industry. I want to get out...

Demo.. ima ja nai... (But... not yet...)

Shock

It's been a month...

And this will be my first entry for September...

I just truly deeply wish it's already Christmas!

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Horcruxes Not Hallows

Harry Potter... the Boy Who Lived... the Master of Death...

I am amazed at the twist Rowling has brewed for the Harry Potter series. I think no other author can do what she did with this international reading sensation. The plot gets richer and richer with every page that you turn. Enemies turned allies, allies turned enemies. Useless object becoming things of value. I am just so happy that in it's epilogue, Harry and Ginny finally found a nook in each other's person. And children... Loads of children!

I need to get a copy of The Tales of Beedle the Bard. Whatever is written on it is a must read. Hoping to get my copy by next week.

I spent today enjoying a full day off without TESDA! Lucky enough, there was no new lessons today. They had to endure another day at the Main Hall watching the finale of TESDA Idol... Copycats we Pinoys truly are.

Lucky that I have rest today and finishing off the book lent to me by the kindest Team Lead around. (God bless his heart!) Looking forward to new lessons tomorrow! Life is so GOOD!

GOD IS SOOOOO GOOD!

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Lost for Words

Milestones versus dreams... Stepping stones versus life at the peak... One TESDA classmate said that I don't give time for myself... That gave me such a pause, for me to think about life as it is right now. It might be true that I don't give myself as much "entertainment" as the world would gauge it BUT...

and again I say BUT!

Life right now is a roller coaster right. I am pursuing the dreams that I thought died in the busy routine of life. You are right. Being in a call center is routinary. But it is really up to your person, yourself what you are going to do with that routine. Are you going to make it rule your life? Are you going to be comfortable with it that you won't accept any challenge that would come your way?

Even if I am 1 month on the floor and let me say 1 month of taking calls, I still come to a point where I am flabbergasted by one or two of the customer's concern. I will NOT say that I know it all in 1 month. I still have the butterflies in the pit of my stomach. I will not allow routine to get back at me again.

Last Sunday, I attended the 8 am service. (Saw some of my friends and for some reason they disappeared before I could get to talk to them. YES Pau! I saw you and Hanna with Mommy!) Anyway, I saw the worship team. The dream of being in that team is still there. The dream that the Lord show what I am going to there IS THERE! There, burning in my heart.

BUT! I know it is not yet my season to be back. It is not yet the season for me to step in. I am following my dreams. And along with those dreams, IS THAT DREAM! Nihonggo classes is my stepping stone. After that JLPT. After that I am looking into parttime studentship (if there is such a word) And finish up 2 years of Business Admin. Masteral, maybe. But all I know is that my Father in heaven is orchestrating something bigger than me. Something bigger than all of us.

I missed blogging!

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Living the Dream

Wow! First entry for August! Hope it's not the last.

I am enjoying my life as a call center agent. I am confident to say that I have adjusted to the lifestyle, the late hours and the team I am now with. I told my mom one time, "It seems like my faith in God is being built stronger outside of the church, than the time I was within the walls." No offense. But I feel like I am getting more dependent on my God factor every time I set-up my tools for a work day.

It's my DAY OFF! Feels like heaven. I am so pre-occupied with a number of things that would not have happened if THE BIG MOVE did not happen. First, I am enrolled in a Nihongo culture and language class under TESDA. I am GMA scholar! At least before Madam President steps down from her position I am able to benefit from one of her projects for the Filipino youth (I still belong in that category! Hahaha! Believe it or not, 3 people in the same week told me that I don't look my age. I look younger! Wahaha! Victory!)

Secondly, after finishing this TESDA class, I will also be reviewing for a LEVEL 4 Japanese Language Proficiency Exam in December. I want that accreditation for the longest time that I've been wanting to study Nihongo.

Believe it or not, our class is tackling Hiragana and Katakana now. A bit overwhelming really and it's gonna take me some time to get used to the writing of their country. I know I am making progress. (Pau, I need to borrow some Arashi and L'Arc music materials.)

Well, that's all I have to say for now. Til this wretched internet connection gets restored.

Pray for me... CONTINUALLY!

I

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

It's Been A While

It's been so long since my last entry. Just want to let you guys know that I am still alive, surviving a world full of phone calls and smokers and normal people as the world would describe it.

I am going to make another entry about a creepy encounter. Just hold on to that thought! :-) Ciao!

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Buhay Call Center

Ayun. Mga boys namin sa batch malalandi at maniac. Katabi ko pa naman sila, madalas usapan ni sex and girls and life in line with that topic. Secondary na siguro ang cars. Kasalanan ko ba na may tenga ako at nakakarinig? Dedma na lang, kunyari seryoso ang aral. Pero HOY! may tenga ako noh! Keep your buzzing to yourselves please!

Tapos dami dami dami dami nagyoyosi. Tuwing break. Ewan ko ba. Ang baho baho naman!

First training week is boring! Gorgeous teacher but in between it's really boring!

Sana sweldo na. Para kahit boring ang buhay, may pang McDo man lang kame. Haaaay! Sweldo, come now!

Argh!

1. When you are really excited about a particular text rally and the other person doesn't really seem to be as interested in it. And he has the guts to sleep off your follow-up question, IT IS SERIOUSLY SO IRRITATING!

2. When people promise to do one thing with you, and suddenly something came up and reschedules your date the following day, it's fine. I understand. The following day, ANOTHER something comes up again and reschedules it THE FOLLOWING DAY yet again, I get it. You are busy and you are JUST trying to fit me in your toxic world. I won't let you know but I'll say it's okay. THE FOLLOWING DAY finally arrives and REALLY, another so and so reason comes along. Whenever you may want to schedule your date with me, I will POLITELY decline and say I am not available. Even if you ask me about the same subject another time of the day, I will not answer. I will not be available for any comment. I AM INFURIATED! GET A CLUE!

New Chance at Life

I told myself that I would never be a call center agent. But look where I am now... training to become one. So that survival may be a possibility.

I told my friends last Sunday a partial reason of leaving my old job. It's one of the major reasons. (Sorry, girls! I'll just have to take you for coffee sometime soon). It's hard to unburden yourself to people. I am REALLY afraid they won't really get me, or they might tag me differently from then on. I am protecting my interests. And my privacy. Some people, when they get a hold of valuable information, they have no other option but to leak it out.

Tuesday, as I sat during training, I was getting ready to give up. Quit and look for another niche in this wide world we live in. But then again, I thought, "If I leave, and I feel this exact same feeling in the next workplace, where will I be in 3 years? A bouncing bum?" I didn't like the picture it painted so I decide to stay and dream big.

With that, if the opportunity comes along, I would apply as the fresh hire (or new blood) trainer. Big pay, little effort! Not bad. If I finish my 4 year course, a managerial position is not too far away.

So there. Blabbering my mind out. I have a big exam tomorrow for US 101. I'm crossing fingers!

Friday, June 5, 2009

Jimmy and Rakel's Wedding (from my point of view)

It is finished! And I am thankful to God for seeing me through this without the couple getting on my back for every single little thing. Let me back track a bit and replay this day in my head.

12:00 am, June 1.

I still wasn't sleeping. Rakel just got home from a late dinner and saw me ironing my event outfit (You see? I don't usually iron clothes for anything at all). Jimmy brought her home along with some wedding paraphernalias that need to be with me during the day. As Jimmy went home and my roomie got ready for bed, I wasn't finished collating all the stuff I needed for the morrow. It was almost 1:30 pm when Rakel finally gave up talking and giving last minute reminders for the wedding. Rakel is one OC bride, that's a fact!

1:30 am

Just as we were getting ready to sleep, this burp attack came out of nowhere. I was releasing air like a construction guy who just finished eating his big meal for the day. On and on it went until Rakel was finally asleep. And the I saw on my clock it was 2:00 am. And I still wasn't asleep. And I had to wake up at 3:15 to get ready to pick up the flowers from Dang-wa. I finally hit the sack at 2:30 and then the alarm rang for the next assignment.

3:15 am

The alarm went off and I was like a zombie prematurely awoken by some sort of irritating thing. I washed up. And when I got back from the bathroom, I got a text from Kuya Toks (Ms. Susanne's driver) that he's already in McDonald's ATC. And he was 30 minutes ahead of schedule. With that, I rushed to the meeting place.

3:45 am

We were supposed to meet at 4:00 am but Kuya Toks got the best of time this time. When I arrived in McDo, IT WAS SO DARK! The branch was doing their weekly over-all maintenance and all the lights are out. Hanna arrived after 30 minutes. Thank God there was a one-eyed cat who kept me company during the long wait. When Hanna arrived, we left right away and on the road to Dangwa.

5:15 am

We finally arrived in Dangwa after several wrong roads and a cup of hot chocolate, e bought the flowers on Rakel's list. It was my first time to buy stuff from that area. And I thank God for Hanna being a heaven sent angel to help me through that errand. For that, I am indebted forever. We finished our assignment in around 30 minutes. I really wanted to sleep on our way back to New Life but Kuya Toks, again, the best driver that he is, reached New Life in 25 minutes... (imagine that!) Sleep, though it was knovking on consciousness' door didn't have the chance to come in at all. I had to wait til much much much later!

6:30 am

Ha!!! New Life lobby is under my muddied and soiled feet. We left the flowers and went straight to TS Crus to grab Uncle Dan and MORE wedding knick knacks. We started on the flowers, a proper breakfast and got Hanna's overnight night bag. When we came back to New Life by 9 am, OMG!!! the caterers haven't arrived yet. This got me back to life. Other than the heavey porkchop breakfast of course. Hahaha!

9:20 am

Still no caterer. So I decided to call our coordinator from their office. She said she's going to check on the status. Another 20 minutes and still no caterer, nor any feedback from the coord, I sent another text. That's when she texted that the truck gave a short pitstop at a vulcanizing shop. All in all, I sent a total of 4 messages to the catering coord before they finally arrived at 10:20 am. That's unacceptable for me!

10:30 am

The caterer went ahead and got their stuff in the sanctuary by this time. And what was I doing, minding all the other details and waiting for my other angels to come in. I also had a little episode with the bridal boquet florist. I called at around 10 am to follow-up on the delivery status of the flowers. The first guy, Leo said that the items still weren't started. I told him that I called last week to have the flowers delivered at 12 noon. And it was 2 hours before my requested call time. Leo in turn assured me to let his supervisor know about this. Anyhow, I called them again and then this Reggie guy answers the phone. I ask them again if the flowers can be delivered by 12. And I asked if he has seen the designs the bride had picked. He rudefully replied that the designs are very easy to make. (Ang simple simple pala ng pinagagawa ninyo e, banat ng Reggie). I didn't give any more side comment and firmly instructed that I needed the flowers by 12. I said goodbye. Gusto kong sabihin sa kanya na, "Hello? Hindi ko tinatanong kung simple o madali ung design. I wanted the flowers by my time!"

12:00 pm

At this point, this is already 12 hours from my initial time line. WOW! And I am still awake.

1:30 pm

We were having a peaceful lunch break when Bekah called confirming the wedding details for sounds. I told her, "Meron na. Matagal na. We gave it to Patch"

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Things I Don't Miss from the Office

Just thinking these over the top of my head.

1. Incessant whining of Big Mama from the Wanna Care? Office. Dami niyang reklamo everyday!

2. All the paperwork which seem to multiply every minute I am gone from my desk.

3. The "CLUELESS" looks and Dumb answers of Ballerina girl from the corporate school.

4. The feeling of being wrong ALL the time.

5. The endless planning meetings that takes up ultra precious time in my paperwork.

6. The stupidity of a security personnel I know.

7. The pressure of being Multi-tasking me.

8. The late-night phone calls of things to do, and things I did not do, and things I am reprimanded because I forgot to them when it wasn't my responsibility.

9. Days Off not being respected as REST DAYS

10. The ultra low financial compensation.

NSO is Getting ON MY NERVES

This morning has been scheduled for me to get the NSO copy of my birth certificate. It has been planned for a week now and I had asked Cez to accompany me to the municipal office.

But!!!! When we got there 10 minutes before 8 AM, the officer releasing the forms cordially announced that "THEY DONT HAVE FORMS" available for filling up. There was about a thousand people in line at that time, waiting for their names to be verified.

I am at the edge of my financial bankrupcy and if I don't get my birth certificate soon, heaven knows what will happen next.

Another try tomorrow at 6:30 am. If they run out yet again of forms, I'm going to the next NSO office where there are less people. What is with Muntinlupa that people flock there for their copies? Pisses me off big time!

Monday, May 18, 2009

David Cook Manila Concert EPIC

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I have waited for months for May 16, 2009 to happen... And it came and surprised me in a way I would never have expected! The Lord is good!

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I bought a SILVER section ticket. This is the first standing section in the Mall of Asia Open Grounds. Out of 40 thousand people, you'd have guessed that this section is relatively far away from the stage. LCD screen were the only way to keep track of ant sized artists moving onstage. Nevertheless, I didn't watch the concert from the SILVER section. I watched it from the side line of the PLATINUM, the 2nd most expensive section FOR FREE! (Com'n people.. Let me hear a WOW!)

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At 3:00 pm I asked a friend if he was going to continue on the volunteering stint for the David Cook concert. He said not. Too bad, I replied. It's a once in a lifetime event. David Cook, in the Philippines, in his FIRST international gig! And it's with David Archuleta! No wonder fans from Asia and the Middle east flew all the way to our country just to SEE him in the flesh!


So me and four other friends travelled to the venue, enduring the temperature of the van we rode in. The MOA cooperative van was airier even though it didn't have an aircon unit. (My make up was starting to melt off even before the concert started. Arrrg!)

When we reached MOA, I opened my phone and saw that the friend I was telling about was trying to call me. So I called him back. And amazing is the news he told me, the organizer gave him not one but TWO all access passes for the concert. In my excitement, I said take me instead of Zarah. She's not a fan. Hahaha! It was settled then! I went with him to the area near the stage.

Okay concert proper mode. Archuleta started of with TOUCH MY HAND. In all fairness, I like his song list that night. Back when I visited Singapore I bought both Cookie and Archie's album. So I relatively was in the know of the songs he sang. I loed his rendition of Zero Gravity. Whew! That song was so full of energy@! The crowd was with him all throughout. BUT...

Even before Archie's last song ended, David Cook appeared in the sidelines. I saw him grabbing the post with his two hands... I guess releasing some pre-concert butterflies. Darn my mobile phone died on me during Archie 3rd song. So I wasn't able to get much of Cookie's appearance and actual performance. Good thing my friend had a digital camera, and he was able to get shots of the performances.

So they had a 20 minute break where the sound check re-did the stage set-up and the tech guys were line-checking all the guitars and other equipment that will be used by the band. After which Skibby was up and was playing a slow instrumental intro for THE WORLD I KNOW while Cookie was under the platform, entering the stage via an elevator floor panel. With guitar in hand, he started singing, and the crowds were cheering and howling and hooting for his grand entrance.. I wasn't expecting anything like this at all.

Just the sight of Cook was taking my breath away. I was practically drooling over every song especially when he sang off-album tracks like MAKE ME, ALWAYS BE MY BABY, LITTLE LIES, STRAIGHT AHEAD... I mean, I know all these songs. Craziest thing David did for me was his guitar dance for the extro of KISS ON THE NECK! I mean, those were some hot moves! I said, "David Cook, ang landi mo! Bumababa ka nga dito at umuwi na tayo!" Hot hot hot!

I couldn't remember which part that was but there was a portion where Joey and Neal were flying onstage with their guitars! I mean, lead vocals was already a hot item on the menu but add on 4 guys equally hot as the first one, Jalapeño special is what you get!

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It was all after the concert where i felt all energy drain from me. We met up with my friends and had dinner at Carlos Pizza, the last shop open in the Mall. It was an enchanted night for me. Sad that it ended with me having no picture of David or any of the band. When I get to the States next year, I'll go see him everyday! But really, thank you OEDIE for sharing your passes with me! You are one blessed guy!

Midnight Revelations (entry # 2)

The David Cook concert was a blast for me! Especially when I could see him at a distance and see him perform live. But as a follow up to MR#1, sila talaga ang dikit eh. Napansin ko lang. Thank you's overflowing from me, mega bonding na sila agad ni ***. For me ayos lang kasi I am officially over him. The concert was a great was to be friends again with someone I felt uncomfy for sometime. :-D Makikilala ko din si David Cook soon!

Blogging Resumes

My blogging time is now back on track... More time to think, more time to post, no more stuff to worry about (like events, et al.)! No more work in the morning! Will keep you up to date on the latest development on my job hunt. Ha life is GOOD! God is GOOD!

Officially FREE

Shocking news! As of May 18, 2009, I, Rachel Mercado, has rendered her resignation and was given a graceful exit to a better life! Job hunt here I come!

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Lost World of Batad

When I prepared for this trip, I read a blog, assuming that what they wrote there was accurate. I planned according to that blog and alas, my expectations did a double dive! The blog said nothing about certain aspects of the trip. So, here is my share in helping you reader plan a better trip for Batad.

THINGS TO KNOW ABOUT BATAD

1. Book your trip to Banaue in advance. You can book via Auto Bus or Florida Bus Lines. They have their terminals in Quezon City. It is a 12-hour drive from Manila to Banaue.

2. When you get to Banaue, contact Jun Binalit for an advance booking to Ramon's Homestay. They will coordinate a vehicle for your 1-hour drive to Saddle Point. They will make sure that you safely get to your destination. 09082554657

If you decide to go to Saddle point via commute, you have to catch the daily Batad jeepney at 2:00 pm at the town proper. Fare is 150 pesos per person. If you come in a group of 6 to 8 persons, it is easier to hire an van at 2500 pesos. Of course the public transport will always be cheaper. The only positive thing to look forward to a hired van is that you are not time constricted to meet transport schedules.

3. Saddle Point is where all the vehicle stop and the visitors trek down to Batad. When you contact Jun Binalit, he will also coordinate a guide for your trek to and from Batad. A guide will cost you from 300 to 500 pesos for inexperienced ones. 800 to 1200 pesos for experienced guides. DON'T GET GUIDES FROM BANAUE. They will greet you when you get off the bus and tail you until you see your contacts. They will have triple the amount of the guide fee from Batad. And they don't guide you in Batad. They guide you until Saddle Point only.

4. Get your knees and legs ready for a 1-hour plus trek down to Batad. The trail is very a bit narrow. but it's of a comfortable width with the cliff on the other side, the mountain face on the other. Always get the most out of the huts on the side of the road. They are there so that you can catch your breath and wipe away all the sweat you may have produced. Take advantage of them.

5. When you get to Ramon's homestay, rest until the following day before you decide to go to Tapiya Falls. Tapiya Falls is another hour trek down the mountain side. It's good to start early the following day like around 8 am. Order something from Irene (the Binalit House cook) for your lunch and enjoy the water until 2:00 pm so you can start your trek back to base before rainfall or sundown. (Keep in mind that IT ALWAYS RAINS IN BATAD) It's okay to bring an umbrella.

6. Rest another night in Ramon's Homestay and rest your limbs. You have to have prime energy when you start your trek up to Saddle Point again in the morning. If you want public transport back to Banaue, you have to be at Saddle Point by 9 am. The jeepney leaves when it is full or if not, leaves at 9:30 am.

7. Upon reaching Banaue, you can have several options:
a. Have lunch in one of the local stores or CHOWKING - Banaue
b. Go up to ViewPoint and get photos of the 1000-peso bill shot of the Rice Terraces
c. Whatever else you may think of doing

Batad is a wonderful place, a magical place you can say. It never grows old, it leaves an everlasting imprint in your mind. The people are so gentle and accommodating. I think the legendary Filipino hospitality was preserved in Banaue and Batad. I want to go back

Friday, April 17, 2009

Midnight Revelations (entry #1)

What will you do if your long time "love" loves somebody else? Ironically, it's one of your closest friends.

I thought it's going to be okay with me. Pero parang hindi...

But I'm not going to alienate myself from my friend just because.. of that...

I'm gonna wait and see.. I have a word from the Lord.. Patience, it will come.

Lindsy and Me O_o part 2

Rainy Banaue

We arrived in the Banaue scene at 7:00 am. Our bus had 2 major flat tire episodes during our trip. But I was so sleepy to care about it all. I think Lindsy heard me say' "I don't care," and continued to doze off to sleep. But it was one scary drive. The bus conductor at one point informed all the passengers that they'll be closing down all the bus lights and close shut all the curtains. (I think we passed through an NPA infested area and are just doing measures to avoid unnecessary stopovers and checkpoints. I had to admit I was praying in tongues for 30 minutes straight before I felt some peace run through my system).


But the day when we were to leave Baguio, I was already texting my Batad contact. He didn;t reply the whole day so I gave him a break. I just said, "He might just be busy with stuff" or "Maybe he slept early that's why he didn't reply". So when we arrived at Banaue, I was a bit worried about this whole thing. So having gone down the bus, we followed a local guy who was supposedly offering his services as a guide. We had to use the comfort room above all else. (I had this wee wee episode from the foot of the mountainous region until we reached Banaue). No pitstop for the past 4 hours. All the water in my systems are nearly leaking... ewwww!!!

We had breakfast at the local cafeteria. I was amazed they were offering brown rice to the customers. (For Manileñas, Brown rice is a tad expensive...) We were having a cup of my hot chocolate when I noticed that I have several missed calls from an unknown number. I immediately called the number and ALAS! It was Annalisa, the niece of our Batad contact. We agreed to meet her at her house in a certain district in Banaue. She told me over the phone that her aunt recently arrived and was on her way to Batad that same day. She just had to confirm it.

So we exchanged text messages during breakfast. Yes. Her aunt will go to Batad. We will have to share the cost of the hired van. As we arrived at her house, we were greeted by Rose, Annalisa's sister. She ushered us in their receiving area and there waited for Annalisa to come back with the hired van. We were also waiting for the aunties (Malou and Aida) to finish up their packing.



The van arrived, we loaded and off we went on an hour drive of smooth versus rough roads to Saddle point. We paid 700 for our share and we proceeded to our hike DOWN to Batad. We had to rent walking sticks to support our walk since we had no prior knowledge about the place. We didn't have to pay for a guide because the aunties were locals of Batad. They knew the place like the back of their hand.

Talking about God connections, we found out that Auntie Aida was a Christian and is married to a foreign national. We had an easy climb down to Batad. We would have stopped for photos if we were with a regular guide. But the aunties were trudging down the mountain with an aim to reach the Binalit house before lunch time. We didn't have enough photos of our Batad trek.

Hungry?

Nevertheless, we arrived safely in the Binalit house, more known to tourists as Ramon's Homestay. We had lunch and a bath and immediately went down to Tapiya Falls. Clad in our bathing apparel, we walked yet again another hour just to reach the beautiful and icy waters of Tapiya. We didn't bring any food with us because we had to head back to the house before the rain fell again on the mountains.

Rice fields of Batad

I had a short frightening experience on our trek to Batad. My slippers weren't able to grasp the loose rocks of a sloping trail and I was almost on my way down to the bottom of the cliff, the rock river from Tapiya. If not for the guide referred to us, I would be down the cliff and no blog that you'll be reading. Thank God for angels! (Auntie Aida prayed for us before we left the house. I praise God for her wisdom.)


Lindsy and I sat on the edge of the pool. The water was soooooooo cold, it was so unreal! We experienced the waves of the waterfall. I was kinda irked that all the stronger waves were lashing at me and not at Lindsy. She was the one excited for the waves. (Nakaka-relax daw, sabi niya). I tried varying my position but still, the waves seem to look for ME and not Lindsy! talk about freaky!

And then... it got cloudy! Lakas ng faith ni Lindsy para hindi umitim!!!!

A few minutes later, it started RAINING!

A moment or so after that, LINDSY had cramps.

We had to go back to a shed nearby and have the cramps go away before we made it up the mountains. Our guide left us for a moment to assist a bigger group of tourists (or so we thought, we found out that he hiked a bit upward to join some locals in their PICNIC!) and the rain kept on pouring! And pouring! And pouring!


(Rainy Batad)

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Discoveries (Part 2?!)



In my Holy Week escapade with Lindsy, I discovered a lot of things about this particular friend. Let me share what I remember...

* Lindsy said she is fond of going to the beach because of the waves that is continuously hitting her on shore... Masochist no? Pero ayaw umitim. Sabi ng mga officemates niya she got a bit of a tan... (HUwhattt?!!)

* Lindsy doesn't know how to sleep in a moving bus. Her head keeps going left and right like a drunken old man. When I tried to sit her by the window, hoping that the window may become a better cushion for her head, she said that she bumped her head numerous times on it. And still, I kept waking up to find her forehead only an inch above my shoulder. talk about Likot!

* Lindsy, when we slept in Batad, kept on inching her way on my side of the bed until I was on 1/2 an inch away from the edge. I had to "CALMLY" tell her to move over kasi malalaglag na ko.

* Lindsy left her mom's umbrelly in Batad. We last used it during our hike up from the Tapiya Falls. (Lagot siya kay Mommy!)

* Lindsy LOVES buttered and salted corn on cobs. (We had this for dinner for 2 consecutive nights!)

* Lindsy and I agreed to bring the caregroup to Baguio late this year. (Kanya Kanya gastos pa rin my friends!)

* Lindsy is fond of knitted sleeveless blouses. Notice the colors one of these days.

* Lindsy didn't seem to break a sweat during our hike from Batad. (All the while I was breathing heavily and sweating buckets after 15 to 20 minutes of hike up to Saddle Point) She said she found going up easier that going down.

* Having gone down from the bus in Cubao on our way home, Lindsy needed to use the bathroom. So we went to a nearby Jollibee store. The CR door was locked so she asked the clerk if it was free or if it is used. The clerk said if it's closed, somebody must be inside. I think she waited by the door a good 10-minutes when an elderly lady came out of it. As the lady walked past her, Lindsy gave the lola another one of her classic "murderous looks" and said afterwards, "Ang tagal niya kasi e"

Bump Bump Bump


Another DC DA concert update!

Didn't I tell you that there are better ways of attending this concert?

I was quite in shock to run into Oedie yesterday... Yes the One and Only 2 year thingie Oedie!

My boss had me run some errands at the Smart and Globe centers. When Jonah and I reached Globe, he was right there, waiting for his turn to come up. SO, I waved hi and got my number from the front desk. And then we started chatting with Oedie.

Sufficely to say, he posted a status message in facebook that he will be having an ALL ACCESS PASS! Initially, he didn't say where it was going to be, but when we ran into him yesterday, he said that it was for the DC DA concert...

I was glad that he moved into that arena by himself, knowing that he isn't really a big fan of either of the artists. (So again, why?) Pero sabi nga ni Rakel, don't make a big deal out of something small...

So there, sabi niya, kakapalan daw niya ang kanyang face to the organizer if he can bring in another "Volunteer". Hope it turns out well. But in case that it doesn't, I still have my fail safe plan, my SILVER concert ticket!

DC DA concert tickets


after some thinking through and a major recuperation from the concert ticket prices, I decided to get the Silver tickets still. At least I could still go with some of my friends... Plus my baby brother ALL OF A SUDDEN invited us all for dinner before the concert. Great deal isn't it?


So I reserved some tickets last Monday, got them Tuesday and posted the news right away.


There are better ways to be in this concert... I know there is!

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Summer

ang init!

share ko lang...

:-)

Lindsy and Me (lol) O_o



I've been gone for almost a week, peaked with excitement before I left and bone-tired when I arrived. I could barely walk down any flight of stairs.


Wright Park


Lindsy and I took a road trip of sorts to Baguio - Banuae - Batad, Philippines. We had this planned from February, originally going to Sagada. But as time drew nigh, the girls whom i have invited declined the invitation to go. Finance related problems if you know what I mean. So, the lonely road challenge was faced by just Lindsy and me.



Let me recall this trip...

Camp John Hay

I just came from my department summer escapade in Laiya, Batangas (Palm Beach Resort). I arrived at home at 9:20 pm, with Lindsy already waiting for me at my house. I hurriedly finished packing my bag in 10 minutes flat and off we go to Victory Bus Terminal in Pasay. having booked out ticket a week bag, the bus ride was less of a hassle for us both. All we had to do was ride the scheduled bus and wait until we arrived in the cooler land of Baguio.



BAGUIO!



We arrived in Baguio at 5:00 am. It was still dark and the bus ride was as chilly as it was outside. As we stepped off the bus, Lindsy and I were taken aback on how "cold" it was. considering that I was just wearing my jeans "puruntong" style, and Lindsy wearing her leggings and some cotton top. (By the way, surprising enough, Lindsy just brought one bag. She said she really thought over the stuff that she'll bring.)

Driveway to Bell House

It seemed like it was our first time touring Baguio City. Lindsy's previous trip was at least a decade ago. Mine was much more recent, 3 years back, but it was a very social trip. Visiting ang touring the more expensive part of the city. Of course I am thankful for the blessing, but it is always good to know any place starting from down up.



As we stepped off the bus, men were waiting in front of the door to shove up our noses even more pamphlets and flyers of different transients and hotels in Baguio. Who am I to blame them? It's tourist season for Baguio... Business must boom more than usual.

Tam-awan Village

To stretch out crumpled butts and chilled legs, we looked for a nearby CR to change clothes and refresh ourselves. We asked for directions for a nearby breakfast place (we learned that it was Jollibee still) and walked for like 15 minutes to the said branch. We got lost 2 times at least in that 15 minute walk. (Pero syempre, kampante si Lindsy kasi ako ang kasama. Matapang kasi ako kahit di ko alam yung lugar.)

Tour Guide Jen

We breakfasted and looked for the transient my friend supposedly booked for us. When we got to the place, we were ripped off by 1000 pesos for a room. We decided to still get it. We were so tired and so dirty, we didn't really care how much we spent on it. We were finally able to relax a bit and finally, see Baguio by 10 am after a fitful nap and a refreshing shower.



We took pictures at Burnham which was a blessed 5 minutes away from our transient. Headed next to Good Shepherd for their famous Ube Jam. Shopped a bit at some road stalls near Minesview. Then squeezed ourselves in a mound full of people IN Minesview. We then waited for my elementary school bestfriend Jenny at one of the nearby restos. Hallelujah! She finally came at around 11:30 am. (Ang dami na namin nagawa in 1.5 hours... Adik!)


Day 1 Baguio City

We went to The Mansion, Wright Park, Camp John Hay and all its intricacies. Ang laki pala ng John Hay! More than 700 hectares... No wonder ang dami niyang hot spots. Jenny was an instant tour guide for the day.

We had lunch in one of the lesser known tourist spots. Locals are fond of this area for its affordable food and good taste. Jenny had work at 2:00 pm so she had say an abrupt goodbye and see us all over the following day. We decided to go to Tam-awan Village after lunch. It is one of the Native Villages preserved as a museum of sorts. Dyan namin kinuha ung picture ni Lindsy na may sungay. galing ko talagang direktor!

Tired feeties

This is just day 1. We got tickets for our Banaue trip in the afternoon. Then I was missing Facebook a lot by then so I dragged Lindsy with me to a nearby computer cafe, surfed for an hour and went to sleep right away at 8:00 pm. I personally needed to catch up on sleep for the next day's drive to Banaue.



Day 2 was a bit more relaxed than the first one. We breakfasted at around 9 am at McDonald's Session Road, met with Jenny and again toured us in the Wag-Wagan section of the City. (The fondly called Ukay-Ukay by Manileñas). Jenny just got off from a very successful job interview and was in a dressed-to-kill outfit. We looked for suitable slippers for her before we headed to MaryKnoll Eco-Park. This was preparation for the Banaue trek we were facing.



Again, a quick goodbye from Jenny so we checked out from the transient at 12 noon. Where we stuffed our bags is a secret. We then went to see Pastor Benny in La Trinidad. He shared on his church, their upcoming Bauko outreach, life in general. And finally I asked if he can pray for us for our Banaue trek. He did and we went on our way back to see Centermall, dinner of mais yet again and got halohalo in the local cafeteria.



We got our bags and went straight to the bus terminal. 10 hour drive to Banaue. What a butt crumpling experience!

The Mansion




- - - to be continued - - -

Rice fields of Batad

(bitin ba? look for Part 2)

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Depression

i got this off David-Cook.org

*sad world*

QUOTE (Poliam564 @ Apr 1 2009, 04:15 PM)

THIS IS IT! ticketnet and ticketworld:
Titanium - Php 12,425.00
Platinum - Php 8,285.00
VIP - Php 4,145.00
Gold - Php 2,075.00
Silver - Php 625.00
Bronze - Php 315.00

Sa youtube ko nakuha yan. May nag post eh. Pero nung pinuntuhan ko yung ticketnet site, wala naman. DI KO ALAM KUNG SURE NA YAN!DAVID COOK & DAVID ARCHULETA Live in Manila! @ the Mall of Asia Concert Grounds • May 16, 2009 • 8PMTickets are available at TicketWorld outlets! Call TicketWorld 891.9999 for details! *nakuha ko yan sa site ng ticketworld. DALII

This is way over my budget!!! Magroroadie na talaga ako!

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

YUMMY!!!!

David Cook is finally landing here... in Manila....




at sinagot pa siya ni Archie...




exciting days ahead... i am definitely saving up for this... still waiting for my researcher to find out when the tickets will be available... *drooling*

(Pau, sasamahan mo ko dito ha.. front seat tayo.. you promised!!! Hanna, ihanda ang mga ouchiwa -did I spell that right?-)

Friday, March 20, 2009

LJ Mania

Rakel arrived last night and shortly described her night to me. Then she said, "Can I join you?" (meaning the net surfing) When she saw LJ tabs open, she commented dryly, "AY. Naka-David Cook mode... Baka di ako maka-singit"

I finally had the chance to bond with the PC last night.. With Zarah and Jonah up in the mountains, *how fun it is* for them and for me. I get the PC all to myself.. Plus Ysrael doesn't bother me when I sit on the throne of the ultimate PC...

As Paula said it, I may need a year before I can go all exclusive to LJ. I sign-up just because of the fun communites.. I saw something last night "Blame David Cook" and something like "American Idol but Gay". I can't wait to explore all the niches of LJ... But of course, blogging updates will still be with blogger.

I can't believe that I could stand Manila Summer and still not take my bath JUST BECAUSE there are new David Infos all over the web... (And I am starting to smell myself.. Sorry guys for being so blunt)

Well, gtg and my bath is waiting for me.. Add my 3 week long laundry to the list as well...

Ciao

Summer Summer Summer

It is sooooooo hot!!! Blistering hot!!!

I must plan something for the caregroup... a summer getaway.. were we can all spend sometime at the beach... batangas would be a good place to start.... or even an over nighter at a hot spring...

I wonder how much would it all cost?

I am so excited for the upcoming Banaue trip... Glory to God.. It's really coming to pass... All I need to do is book bus tickets to Banaue... I just can't seem to get through to Autobus... line is always busy...

Pawdough, I wish you'd sent hanna with us... Pretty please....?

Let's see... This is still a draft but the schedule might work...

April 3 - 4 Batangas Beach Swimming for Lindsy's birthday
April 6 - 11 Banaue - Batangas Trip with Lindsy
April 17 - 18 Alternate Sched Beach Swimming for Lindsy's
May 15 - 16 Rent a resort at Pansol for Babes' birthday

Anybody up for Splash Island?

***I bought a new bottle of Sunscreen... last time Lindsy brought one, it was already expired.. Lol****

Friday, March 13, 2009

LIE

Lie
Sung by David Cook, 2008
(I want to especially dedicate this song to #8: I used to imagine he's the one singing this)

You whisper that that you were getting tired (Yes, I am tired of waiting)
Got a look in your eye, looks a lot like goodbye (I finally did my goodbyes)
Hold on to your secrets tonight (He actually told me that's it's okay for me not to reveal who #8 is)
I don’t want to know
I’m okay with this silence
It’s truth that I don’t want to end

You’re hiding regret in your smile (I regret na hindi naging kami)
There’s a storm in your eyes
I’ve seen coming for a while (Guess I got too tired of waiting for the wrong guy)
Hang onto the past tense tonight (Past tense kasi we're just friends para sa kanya)
Don’t say a word
I’m okay with the quiet
The truth is going to change everything (Eventually, if I did tell him, it's gonna jumble up all the foundations we had as FRIENDS)

So lie to me and tell me that it’s going to be all right. (Yes, Pau, it's true. I lied about removing him from it all)
So lie to me and tell me we’re going to make it through the night.
I don’t mind if you wait before you tear me apart (If I were his NL Girl, I won't tear him up. He doesn't have to undergo another heart ache... But NL Girl is NOT me... Sayang.. He'll have to endure the pain of being rejected..)
Look me in the eye
Lie, lie, lie
Lie, lie, lie

I know that there’s no turning back (Now that he knows, there's no backing out)
If we put too much light on this we’ll see through all the cracks
Let’s stay in the dark one more night (Meaning continue believing the lie that we're friends when all along I felt something more for him)
Don’t want to know
I’m okay with the silence
It’s truth that I don’t want to end

Don’t want to believe in this ending
Let the cameras roll on
Keep pretending
Tomorrow’s all wrong if you walk away
Just stay. (I really wish he'd tell me this... But season has come. It has gone. I have said too many goodbyes. Hit my head on walls to hard. Had my heart broken to ashes, it cannot be revived and glued back in place. I am tired to waiting... Waiting long.. Waiting for the wrong one.. Waiting for answers to prayers I know I am pushing on God. Sana hindi na lang kami naging magkaibigan. Letting go might be a lot easier to do. But then again, partly, I am still living part of that lie... I don't want to lie anymore!)

David Cook as "The Archuleta Fan"

Just want to share a funny vid I came across a few days back... Enjoy a good laugh!


Makin' Memories

Just want to back track on a particular friend, someone close by heart.

Naka-emote mode ako ngayon, so I want to go back to our "exclusive" times together...

1. Dinner and movie date. We watched "Batanes"... we were bored to death after the movie.
2. Hillsong concert escort. After the concert we had some late dinner at Taco Bell in Araneta.
3. Lunch Date (very post birthday date) where I handed to him his David Cook album copy, bought all the way from Singapore.
4. Invited him to attend one RU meeting. He came and I had the privilege to walking with him to the stoplight of Alabang Hills.
5. Invited him to be my guest of honor for my WON graduation. He came.. Nag exert ng effort in fairness!!!
6. Had lunch with him at Sbarro in Insular Building, Makati.
7. We have exclusive "email" tracks... Kakatuwa nga.. he takes time to read and answer them one by one.
8. I'm not really counting but he's always there in a jiffy when I need some good talk

I am done... (Pau, the name of this person rests solely with you.... )

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

First Date Deal Breakers

>>> something I found at yahoo... So interesting...


First Date Deal-Breakers
Posted Wed, Mar 04, 2009, 4:34 pm PST

Whether you're fifteen or fifty, there's nothing quite like a first date. The excitement. The jitters. The potential for romance... And the potential for some big mistakes. If you're hoping date #1 might lead to date #2, here are a few things Foxy thinks you should avoid...

Fakin' It... Why invite a guy to a ball game if you hate it? Or ask a girl to a Bergman festival, when you love bad brutes and big guns? It's great to try new things, but it's most important to be yourself. Faking it can backfire by making you seem false, flighty, or even desperate -- and no one wants to date that.

Your Junk-Ridden Chariot Awaits... Unless she's a diva extraordinaire, your date won't expect a limo or sports car to pick her up. But she also may not dig your car's "lived-in" interior, filled with old soda cans, banana peels, sweaty gym clothes, and matted newspapers. Clean out your car, make it presentable, and get gas -- otherwise your date may end up running on empty.

Some Like It Loud... Screamin', smashin' rock concerts have their own charm, but not for a first date. You'll spend the evening nodding nervously at one another and trying to keep good rhythm, while the deafening music rages on. The same goes for loud bars or restaurants -- who wants to shout all night long while you're trying to get to know each other?

Primpin' Like the Prom... Getting dolled up in a stiff suit-and-tie or frilly dress isn't the way to go on a first date. It's likely to make your date feel like they're seventeen again and headed to the gymnasium for some pink punch and slow-dancing. There are plenty of ways to look nice without looking overdone. Guys, opt for a crisp pair of khakis or cords and a button-down shirt. Gals, slip on some wide-leg slacks and a feminine blouse... or a casual skirt and sweater. No corsage required!

Friends ‘n' Family... There is much to be said for the power of pairs. In the beginning, it's best to keep it to the two of you. Bringing over-zealous friends and over-protective relatives into the mix is a lot to hit a person with on the first date. Start slow and get to know one another first.

Five-Star Fancy or Carelessly Casual... Avoid either. Fancy first dates can be a huge mistake. Pricey restaurants often feel fussy and put undue pressure on your wallet and your evening. If your date does treat you to dinner at a pricier place, don't order the most expensive thing on the menu -- that lobster with truffle champagne sauce is definitely a deal-breaker! If you end up going low-key, you should still steer clear of cheap chain restaurants and other overly casual joints. Be thoughtful! Try a fun picnic in the park or even an evening of bowling? Good, cheap fun is oh so romantic!

Bed-Lam... If you both like each other, there will be plenty of time for canoodling, caressing, and luxurious mornings lounging in bed. Don't rush it. Let the first date be informal and comfortable, by setting aside the stress of, you know... (S-E-X). (With ths one, I totally disagree.. wait til you get married, you horny peeps!)

Getting Snippy... A first date isn't the time to give your locks a major snip, change your hair color, or do anything else drastic (like try out a pair of ultra high heels you can't walk in). You want to feel your most relaxed and comfortable, so save the experimentation for another time.

Now, Back to Me... Info-swapping is one of the centerpieces of your date. What music you like, how much you hate eggplant, whether you're a cat or dog person, and so on. But if you spend the whole time blabbing about yourself without giving your date equal talking time, you're nothing but a buzzkill.

Smells Like Desperation... People can smell a desperate singleton a mile away, so avoid punctuating dinner with not-so-subtle comments like, "My mother would love you!" Or ending the evening with, "So, do you want to go out again? Maybe on Wednesday? At six?"

Return to Sender... Texting, whether you love it or hate it, don't do it! Even if your date is in the restroom. Even if you think you can sneak it under the table where no one will notice. Your date will not LOL, so put that thing away -- G2G!

Contingency Plans... There's no telling how a first date will go. Sometimes, smooth sailing. Sometimes, painful from beginning to end. Which is why humans invented emergency "outs." The problem is, contingency plans are way too obvious and offensive to your date. If you're concerned about how the date will go, don't have your "friend" call you with an "emergency" halfway through dinner, stick with something quick like coffee, snacks, or ice cream.

And Now for the Big Goodbye... If all goes well on a first date, you may end the outing with a little kiss. If you find yourself freaking out about it way before the date is even over, know that a hearty hug can send the same message. If you do go for the lips, make sure your mouth is minty fresh. (Even a quick peck on the lips would be fine by me. :-)

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Oh no!!! I'm so in TROUBLE!!!

I am a self-acclaimed extremist!!!

The moment that I have finally, finally, finally decided to let go, I erased all my connections to #8 from my entire life.

Facebook.
Mobile Phone.
Yahoo Messenger.
Friendster.
The works....

I tell myself that it's for me not be entangled anymore with the nitty gritty details of falling in and out of love again with this guy. Hello people?!! Two years is not easy to forget... Let alone memories that bug you once in a while... *whew*

Then I got a message from an unlisted number around 5 pm this afternoon.

"Y?" It said...

I got no clue as to who might have sent it.. But I had a gut feeling it was him...

Ignoring the initial message, I went on the afternoon doing my assignments.

Then I got another SMS.

"Anong problema? May ginawa ba akong mali?"

The contents confirmed the sender's identity. So I gave him a call.

Basically, I denied removing him from my list. But in a very friendly voice, I chatted with him over the phone, asking him for updates. But every answer he gave me just went over my head... (Oh Lord! I'm so sorry! This one's unintentional...) There were people milling around me at the moment and it was so hard to focus on my phone call. *sigh*

Anyway, I will add him up again. But I know I will have to be more careful of my postings. I can't do my random everyday girly thoughts on FB. And I will have to not comment on anything that might be even slightly interesting for me...

Goodbyes are always hard.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

10 Things I Need to Do (According to Google)

Since I was surfing the net yesterday, I found this at Matt Lindquist's site.

These are what I found out... Scared me, really... It was so to the moment real!!!

Rules for this one...
a. Go to Google
b. Type your name and the words "needs to" all in quotation marks. (e.g. "Kathy needs to")
c. Report back on the first ten things that come up for your name

1. Rachel needs to watch teevee more
2. Rachel needs to snap out of this
3. Rachel needs to travel more
4. Rachel needs to focus
5. Rachel needs to get her wisdom tooth pulled out
6. Rachel needs to advertise her Podcasts
7. Rachel needs to pee
8. Rachel needs to go now
9. Rachel needs to eat
10. Rachel needs to walk away with a dress today

As I browsed Google again today, I saw something new... "Rachel needs to refer to Websites, Manuals, and a variety of Documentation" (Talk about work reminders...) And this has been circulating since 2005... where were we?

It's The Season for Graduations

Women of the Nations will be having their batch graduation on Saturday, March 7, 2009, 2:00 pm at the New Life Christian Center Alabang Sanctuary.

(Does this sound like an ad?)

The office seems to teem with so much activity this past week... Just because the graduation is getting nearer and the preparations being done seem to pile up more every day. How I wish we would be over it and just enjoy a relaxing session with a masseuse. (Did I spell it right?)

Stress upon stress and fluttering activities day by day.... I wish Saturday was here...

I also paid for 2 seats. One for Ysrael, my brother. And Cito, my best friend.

There's a reason for bringing Cito to this event. (My underground reasons: Of course, It's great to be seen wth a good looking guy. Secondly, I think they are assigning #8 to be the activity's video director... Payback!!!)

But honestly, I want him to be more involved with church life. And secondly, so that the girl who likes him so much can get a chance to chat with him... I can't imagine the riot that will happen in the event! I'm such a plotter... *evil laugh*

But then again, Ysrael can't make it, so I asked Paula to be my guest. Cito on the other hand, will try to catch up... Men!!! Sometimes I opt to think like one... But when you're on the spot with one, I can never be too sure of how their brains really works... Am I the only who notices?!

Venus versus Mars

What Does Cito Like In A Girl

Wow! It's Thursday!

I had a wonderful lunch date with a great friend - - -> CITO.

During the course of our lunch, I asked him, what are you looking for in a girl? So I can help him find "The Right One"

And so the interview results were:

1. The girl must not be too demanding for time.
2. Must be independent
3. He recently found out that he likes "TISAY"
4. Must be opinionated
5. Cowboy but can also be "SOSYAL"

That's as far I could remember... If I remember more, I'll edit this entry...

A few minutes back, I went to his friendster account. I looked up MIB girl. As I was browsing through pictures, all the details I just mentioned were all in the girl. She's pretty, opinionated, cowboy but Sosyal in most her pics. But she's sooooo young... a fresh grad as I recall.

I guess he is still hung up over this girl... Some things just need time to be flushed out of one's system... being in love is one of them...

Looking for the right girl for him will just an awful lot if I was the one doing all the looking for him... God can take better care of this situation than I can... But it never hurts to be on the look out just the same.

Bless this guy!

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

LIFE ON THE MOON

"Life on the Moon"
(Sung by David Cook, 2008)

Here in this crowd, I'm feeling all alone
Turn me around, and point me back to home
I'm getting lost more everyday
and I can't tear myself away
From the stars in my eyes with no light

Here are my terms, have some faith in me
And I'll let you be who you need to be

Life on the moon
Couldn't be any stranger
Life on the moon
Wouldn't feel as far away
The life that I knew, it's through
And I'm gonna need you more than ever
I'm alone in this crowded room
It's like life on the moon

Float off the ground, my hands up in the air
Self conscious to a fault, with all them people everywhere
It's getting harder every night,
to take the punches left and right
Just to know that you're here by my side

Here are my terms, have some faith in me
And I'll let you be who you need to be

Life on the moon
Couldn't be any stranger
Life on the moon
Wouldn't feel as far away
The life that I knew, it's through
And I'm gonna need you more than ever
I'm alone in this crowded room
It's like life on the moon

Getting lost in my own atmosphere
Stars in the sky are the stars in my eyes
It's the cost of getting out of here alone

Life on the moon
Couldn't be any stranger
Life on the moon
Wouldn't feel as far away
The life that I knew, it's through
And I'm gonna need you more than ever
I'm alone in this crowded room
Life on the moon
The life that I knew, it's through
And I'm gonna need you more than ever
I'm alone in this crowded room
It's like life on the moon

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This song has been ringing in my ears for the past 2 weeks... I guess I'm just hearing a lot of David Cook music. But beside that, I guess I am relating myself to the song, with everything I've been going through in work, in ministry, in love life, in health... I really believe I relate..

A mass of people mill around you everyday and yet you feel alone. You have no definite person to run to and just pour out your frustrations. Then your boss at work doesn't believe in what you're capable of. They don't see the innate talents that you have. All passion that you want done are discredited just because people around you does not believe you are good enough.

That's life.. On the moon as the song has sung... Craters all around.... Some too deep for you to even think of navigating... Frustrating like the surface of the moon...

Found this next picture in one of the DC sites... I liked it so I got it...


Books Calling..

I had my birthday celebrated this year with Paula giving me a gift. It was a novel by Mary Higgins Clark, "Where Are You Now?". I have finished this book. It's an okay read for people who like mystery and suspense. The plot is the same as most of MHC's books. But since then, every time I would pass by any National Bookstore or Booksale or Diplomat kiosk, I would really take time to look for good books.

Pau, This is your fault really. *good fault* Hahaha!

I think that from then til now I have purchase 12 books total. I'm still finishing the first book I bought from NBS. This one is by Nancy Taylor Rosenberg, "Sullivan's Evidence". It's a mixture of legal stories, suspense, crime and passion. It's kinda exciting... But I don't suggest teens under 16 read this. It's to sensual to describe... (Nagmamaasim!!!)

So there, another 20 pounds to lose in 3 months. Still waiting for the WON graduation to finish so I can read them all. Good books set my pace... :-)

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Pasok Bisor

Hahaha...

This term was coined just recently between me and Rakel.

Pasok Bisor means you go to work like a supervisor. You own your time. You can over sleep if you want to... Just like today...

After this entry, I'll be going to take my bath and proceed to Town Center. I have been so tired the previous days I've been really wanting to get a massage...

I guess this entry is just as random as my brain could be this morning...

I opened my Facebook profile and *tada* cez left a message that my boyfriend David Cook will be in town in May 16.... Hallelujah!!! I'll get tickets for us... How exciting!

I also had a late night at the final wake service of Honey's grandmother yesterday. I missed her so much that I opted to stay and chat and bond with her even if I have errands to do this morning. Losing someone is truly sad, especially if you have fond memories of them.

Got to go now... ATC is waiting and I need to be back in church at 1 pm.

Ciao!

Monday, February 23, 2009

Dream Sequence

I woke up this morning to the sound of my wake up call... "I love you, baby! Mwah! Mwah! Mwah! Mwah! Mwah!" But that exact same sound disrupted a wonderfully nice dream I was having.

In my dream, I had a visitor at home. It was Cito. With this guy, it is so comfortable to be with him everytime. I can tell him everything. We can talk about anything under the sun. I can tell him my frustrations, my career life, my family life, David Cook fantasies, anything. That's why it is such a comfort zone to be around him.

So he was waiting for me in the living room. He was sitting in one of the single seater couches that sat beside each other. When I got there, I sat beside him on the other couch. Talked a bit. I took his hand. I noticed his hand was a several shades redder than normal. So I asked him, "Why is your hand so red?" He just said, "Don't you like it? Do you want me to have Marvin remove it?" I was about to say no when I realized he was already out of the house, coming out of his car. Outside the window, I noticed that it was our house in Cavite, tall shrubs planted in front of the house, thus allowing me to see through them and notice Cito coming out from his car.

Then I saw Marvin running to the house's direction. When he was at the living room window, he pulled himself up one of the bars and enter the window like a folded gymnast, coming through the bars, butt first, toes last.

Then the alarm went off....

I was so annoyed...

I wanted to see the end of the dream... What was Cito doing in my house? I could hold his hand now, but as I held his hand in the dream, it felt different... it's as if we moved on to another phase... It felt so real.

It's no good to make assumptions out of a dream.

I promise to take everyday one step at a time, especially when it comes to love.

Cito is my best friend! He is blessed!

Sunday, February 22, 2009

#8

Ironic... In most of my email addresses, usernames and even birthday, 8 has been an integral part of my online life... And now, I placed L in #8... How ironic can that be?

I just want to list down the things I liked about #8... So that when I look back and remember the days I was head over heels attracted to him, I can compare and thank God for giving me the best man as my spouse... Ready? Here we go... I like him because:

1. I liked him first for his honesty about his heart
2. He is funny.
3. He is sensible to talk to.
4. He is tall enough for my taste.
5. His color matches my preference.
6. HIs facial features may not be perfect but he definitely has something.
7. Charisma flows out from him naturally
8. He likes chocolates.
9. He is so shy.
10. He makes me smile a lot.


I wasn't able to go out with him or anything. But in his own words, #8 is blessed because he is loved. He truly was... until now... that I am firmly decided... No more turning back, I'm glad he made a move for his 4 year running crush. Now that I'm looking at the list, I realize I'm only infatuated.. not really ready to take this friendship into something else.

What if we came together? I don't know what will happen. I just hope he finds love at the end of his rope as I find mind at the end of mine...

Good bye #8! It was great knowing you...

Friday, February 20, 2009

Long Term But Still Undone

I had a grand realization of my ex-love life a few minutes back. and I thought, why not share the 2 years I spent crazy head-over-heels with this guy. But this time, I'm writing, as my last sayonara to him and to a love unrequited despite all means.

As for my facebook announcement about him, I'm going to fondly call him #8.

I started liking #8, when I met him through my friend, his sister. We started chatting and I learned from there that he had this heart ailment making his heart beat slower than the regular pace. I decided that moment, "I wanted to take care of this guy my entire life."

So, the blossoming girl I was back then, I made efforts to talk to him on Sundays, send text messages, send emails. I always make it a point to make him laugh whenever I was with him. I wanted him to see my good points. (Of course, best foot forward every time). I desperately wanted him to notice me more than just a friend, more than a confidant, but someone he could share his life today and the days to come. Crazy no?

(I am a bit teary eyed by now). When he had this concert thing he was promoting, I was 10 steps ahead in promoting him in front of my bosses. I even bought one VIP seat for that one so he can have some more income (or freebies maybe. I can't remember if he told me he did get some). I spent money on this guy!!!

Then he would do stuff that most girls would find intriguing thus leading us to fall deeper into a trap we made out for ourselves. He did invite me personally to a meet and greet session with the band. Then one particular christmas, my girlfriends were secretly squealing with delight as #8 came over to me, took photographs together with him, just being as heavenly nice as he could be. My friend Rakel exactly said, "He's sending the wrong signals girl if that's the case."

And as usual, your crazy friend went overboard that same year by being the first to greet him on his birthday. I gave him expensive chocolate as a gift. I repeated that again during Christmas. After their performance in a prominent mall, I went up to him and gave him chocolates as my gift to him.

Worst part of this love story, he forgot all about my birthday. I was so ASAR (irked), that the memory of my birthday didn't come up to his memory until after a month after I celebrated it. KAKAINIS TALAGA! For weeks I didn't talk to him, I intentionally ignored him. I went from extremely hot to ludicrously cold towards him. I had to give him the cold shoulder for what he did. It may seem childish but it was a big deal for me. I was a BIG deal. And he forgot. What a friend he was!!!

So after my birthday event, he just said to me, "Oh, nagbirthday ka pala ng January?" AND NO GREETING kahit late? UUUGH! Sobra na talaga!! That's when I decided, "Stop it, Rachel!" This is going nowhere. Give him up and be happy."

I did that but I spent at least a year forgetting and burying the feelings that died the day I was born. I believe I am totally free....


UNTIL...

I posted this thing called "25 RANDOM THINGS ABOUT ME" in Facebook. How dense could he be? How blinded was he? 3 clues and yet he still didn't get it. I even tagged him in that list...

So now, he is back, bugging me about who #8 is. He wants to know this Sunday.... But I can't tell him, not face to face if I still want him to be my friend. I don't want to risk him knowing and then ignore me all Sundays of my life with one stupid mistake of telling him.

Believe me, I really wanted to. I imagined a hundred different scenarios of how it would be if I told him. But the idea didn't rest well in my heart. So then I won't.

Far as I know, I just discovered the name of the girl that has been the object of his affections for the past 4 years. I was a bit jealous every time he would sit beside her. Or the fact that we were talking and this other girl would wave hello, and he'd immediately drop me as if there was a VIP who just came in. Darn!!! I should have noticed it before.

I wouldn't even touch the idea of him liking the girl because the girl was like 6 years older than him. But when he gave me several clues to work on, and I saw the name in one of my social utilities, TRUTH struck me hard between the eyes. It was there all along but I was blinded by my own selfish desire to have him for myself.

So I end this by saying, I wish him happiness. But far as I am concerned, I am done. I am finished. This chapter is closed. Case closed. No more #8 names coming out of my lips. I am just gracefully waiting for the right one my God has designed for me. THE ONE.

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